This is the third installment of Thirty Dirty Questions. A meme of sorts that I found on the blog of Brigit Delaney.
Question 3: What are your sure fire turn ons (and / turn offs)?
Arousal is such a tricksy beast for me. My mind plays tricks on me and I second guess myself. I find it hard to be in the moment and to truly let go. This post has sat in my mind for over a week but still I cannot write paragraphs or describe properly what turns me on. The best I can do is a series of notes.
- Strength. Strength of body to be able to pull me around the bed, or the room, or wherever we are
- Strength of character. A confident man who doesn’t have to dominate but who will get what they want
- Humor. Pet once said if you can’t laugh when you are having sex you aren’t doing it right. I have never forgotten that truth.
- When a strong man touches you for the first time and you feel his desire.
- A man who is confident enough to touch his cock in front of anyone watching. He knows himself and he doesn’t mind giving himself pleasure.
- Sweat dripping on my face while I am fucking.
- Weak minded excuses
I read this list and realised that there are very few acts listed there. I will make a separate category for them
- Licking my arse. Confidently like you want to own it
- Spanking while you are fucking me. Again, confidently like you own it
- Licking my pussy like it is your lifeblood and you cannot live without it.
- Taking your cock out in the midst of fucking and using it to stimulate my clit. I will shower you with ejaculate. I will not be able to stop myself.
I am going to leave you with these thoughts. Because I like to start my Mondays with a smile and so should you.
This post is part of this week’s MMMonday roundup. Click the image below to see who else is putting the MMM in Monday.