TMI Tuesday – From the Fantastic to the Realistic

1. What do you have against reality?

I don’t really have anything against reality. Reality is necessary for the world to go around. Where it becomes and issue is when there is no room left in life for fantasising. From fantasies comes ideas which lead to inventions that change the world.

2. Do you feel like you are maintaining a healthy balance between leisure, time for self, career, physical activity, and those you care about?

During the early years of my marriage I was very focussed on my career. After my children were born I didn’t really put my career in the back seat I merely tried to be the perfect mum/ employee/ wife all at once. Because that is possible right?

These days I am more conscious of the work – life balance issue and I make a point of keeping certain barriers in place, eg. I don’t receive work emails on my personal phone, I don’t read my work emails in the evening or over the weekend. When taking on extra tasks I try to be realistic and I am getting better at prioritising tasks. Currently I am on extended leave which is definitely helping to recharge the long term batteries and provide time for reflection.

3. What is a fantasy you have that you really want to come true?

I would love a beautiful modern house that has views of trees and water with space for my sewing / craft and maybe a pole dance area that is not in view of every single inhabitant of my house. In this house nudity and sex are allowed everywhere because there aren’t people like in-laws or children living there that make that kind of thing awkward.

I just read that and thought what an unexpected thing for a sex blogger to write. I just didn’t have a sexual fantasy that is at the front of my mind right now.

4. What is the most impulsive thing you have ever done?

I am a worrier. Being impulsive is not in my nature. The voyage I am currently undertaking was relatively impulsive for me. In the space of about nine months we had purchased our yacht, said goodbye to our family and loved ones and set sail to unknown places. What made it impulsive? Up until about a year before we left I would not have even considered doing this.

5. You are being given an all expense paid vacation, and you must leave for vacation tomorrow. Considering your current mood, state of mind, feelings–will you take the vacation alone, with a friend or with family? Why? (Choose one)

Given that I am currently in the middle of a vacation of a lifetime I don’t really think I could ask for another. But if someone else was going to pay for flights accommodation and cocktails I would love to spend a week with The Unicorn hanging out at the island we are currently anchored at.

Bonus: How do you feel most of the time? Happy? Anxious? Satisfied? Sad?

Anxiety happens a lot in my life. I am a compulsive worrier. Working on being more relaxed and living in the moment.

Bonus Bonus:

Just to make those Australians who are feeling the cold this week a little jealous here is a peek of the sunshine where I am this morning.

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Wife, swinger, blogger. An ordinary woman living life one day at a time dealing with the complications of moonlighting as a sex goddess.

4 thoughts on “TMI Tuesday – From the Fantastic to the Realistic”

  1. Reading these questions, I am realizing many of my answers would be similar. Same house vision, and I have spent most of my life worrying and anxious. I’ve felt the weight of my family (and city) on my shoulders. Trying to keep everyone safe, comfortable, fed, clothed, financially afloat, bills paid, cars running, etc… My wife has always been a huge help, but the success or failure of this family rests on my shoulders. As the man of the house, those are the rules. At least they way I was raised and what everyone expects of me. Not complaining, just as I’ve gotten older and the kids are gone, I have some breathing room now and see how tense I spent my life worrying about everyone. Looking back, not sure how the hell I did it and I’m glad I can breathe a little now. That being said, my vacation would just include the wife and I. The kids can (and do) fund their own trips now. It’s time for mom and dad to have some fun without the entourage.

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    1. Mum and Dad definitely need to enjoy themselves. I am currently 9 weeks into our sailing voyage a time in which I have been 24/7 with Mr Jones. I am very close to my daughter and so I am missing her a little. Hence the comment about wanting a vacation with her.

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