It has been a week. The wind and the seas have not been kind to us and we are now holed up in a marina waiting for the wind to drop. A few weeks ago I sent some possible questions to TMI Tuesday. I didn’t realise they were this weeks questions until I was catching up on my blog reading. So given they are my questions (at least in part) I thought I should give them some air time. A chance message yesterday led to a long sex session so my words may ramble a little today as my thinking is a little skewed.
1. What are your thoughts on public nudity or skimpy clothing?
This is a complex question for me. My stupid Catholic childhood conditioning still pokes its head up from time to time and makes me pass judgement on girls wearing shorts that show their arse cheeks and display their bodies in a sexual way. Then I find myself walking around my yacht nude without a care for the people who can see me.
Our bodies are all beautiful. Being nude in nature, such as at the beach or outdoors is part of the beauty and freedom of those places. Being nude at home is personal choice. No one should judge you for how you dress in your own home. If they don’t like what you are wearing or doing they shouldn’t be looking.
Social conventions state that when in public company we wear clothes. Besides clothes can be fun and also enhance your comfort level. However if what I am wearing is safe I don’t need to consider your ideas about modesty. If you don’t like my cleavage or my arse then don’t look!
2. Which of the following best describes you:
c. Keep nudity and things sexual behind closed doors
Definitely an exhibitionist. I like to do things that shock. I like people looking at me when I am nude or wearing something revealing. I like the feeling of power it gives me. And I love the idea that I am turning someone on.
3. What is the most revealing outfit that you have ever worn in public?
I do pole dance for fitness. I frequently wear clothing that shows my arse and my cleavage. A couple of years ago I did a class that was more about floorwork than pole and for our graduation performance we did a semi strip. I loved it.
4. There are only two types of beaches left in the world–clothing optional and must be clothes-free. Which beach will you visit?
Must be clothes free. Because being nude at the beach is amazing. Although I can do without the creepy middle aged men who think a nude beach is a valid pick up zone.
5. You have just gotten out of the shower to find that your towel is hanging outside on the clothesline. Your house is full of guests. Do you:
a. Call out for someone to bring your towel.
b. Use something else to dry yourself.
c. Retrieve your towel as inconspicuously as possible wrapping it around you at the earliest chance.
d. Take advantage of the sunshine and dry yourself au naturale in your backyard.
I am going with c. although I probably wouldn’t worry too much about being inconspicuous. As I stated in question 1. If you don’t like how I am dressed when I am at home then don’t freaking look. Or as Pete Symes says “If you don’t like my peaches then don’t shake my tree”
Bonus: Have you ever skinny dipped or visited a nude beach? Pictures would be awesome!
I have visited a couple of nude beaches in my travels. Or is that I have been nude at beaches regardless of the dress code? Meh Potato Potahto. We did visit an “official” nude beach at Magnetic Island. The beach was beautiful in the extreme. The patrons of the beach were friendly enough although I was the only nude female and there was the usual contingent of creepy middle aged men. Including one wearing a cock ring??
Creepy man at a nude beach? I can’t imagine… What’s with the guy with the cock ring? That would result in an interesting tan line. Great pics Mrs. Jones! I’m middle aged, trying not to be too creepy. Florida is almost entirely coastline, but the lack of nude beaches kinda sucks. The US is like that, particularly in the bible belt south. Nudity is frowned upon. A lot of places ban alcohol sales in strip clubs if there’s nudity. Bible belt…
There is a lot of greyness between nudism and swinging. Nude beaches can be places where swingers hang out. Or people indulge their exhibitionist side in these places. This leads to some men thinking that nudist beaches are great places to score some action. Sad, but a fact of lift.
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Arrrggghhhh! The brain! So interesting how that early conditioning/brainwashing can still control your thoughts; then you wrestle them back. Good on you! Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for the questions, your thoughts and the photos.
Hope by now the high winds have passed and you are sailing again.
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