1. To spice things up in the bedroom, how adventurous are you willing to be? (select one)
a. I have never role-played before and will need a lot of instruction.
b. I have tested the waters, but never acted out anything scripted.
c. I have got my feet wet and want more!
d. Dive in head first – nothing is too deep.
Role playing is not something that I have ever really done. I always felt very self conscious when I have thought about stuff like that. I am not confident enough in myself so if I had to choose one of the options I would be a)
2. What scenario peaks your interest most? Why?
a. Romantic and sensual
b. Playful and fun
c. Kinky! I want it all.
I am very much into sensual play. I love playing with different sensations tripping over the line between pleasure and pain. Doing this was one of the things I enjoyed most about my time with JB. Exploring that line, giving pleasure and some pain to increase his pleasure gave me no end of pleasure. It takes a great deal of trust and intimacy to achieve this kind of pleasure / pain. I hope that one day I will have the opportunity to experience that again.
3. Which of these is closest to your ideal setting for a fantasy?
a. A brothel
b. A dungeon
c. A bedroom
d. A prison cell
Taking into account my answer to question 2, I would choose a dungeon. It would indeed be the best place because it would contain implements and equipment that would enable me to play with the joys of pleasure – pain.
4. Which of the following toys would be prominently featured in your fantasy? (select one)
a. Feathers and whipped cream
b. Handcuffs, panty hose, and a necktie
c. Whips and chains
d. Ice cubes and a cold beer
Despite being interested in using a small amount of pain to increase pleasure I am not really a sadist. Extreme pain is not really something that interests me. My fantasies are about teasing by restraint so that I can give pleasure at my will. Restraining my partner means that I a also in control of my own pleasure which I can take at my own will. The tools that serve this are definitely hand cuffs and neckties. The pantyhose are part of the teasing.
5. It is time to take your sexy self to fantasy island, which fantasy will you bring to life to rock your lover’s world?
a. The Sassy Sexy Jersey Whore: Gaudy, Flashy, Showy…totally Jersey!
b. Kinky Cook: It’s all about the spice! Heating things up in the kitchen.
c. Naughty Maid: Your feather duster will tickle more than just the dust on the shelves.
d. Doctor Love: Saving lives and breaking hearts but not before you administer a head-to-toe physical examination.
e. Frisky Fireman: A hose so long you can put out several of the hottest fires and leave a smoldering heap as proof of a job well done.
As I have already said my role playing experience is very limited. Looking at the list above a couple of things come to mind.
C. Naughty maid: I have a thing for the Rocky Horror Show. I love the costumes, the music and have seen the stage show a couple of times. Because of this I have always wanted a maid outfit. I guess I have never really had a reason to buy one. I know you don’t need a reason to buy lingerie but Mr Jones really isn’t into the dressing up thing and so I don’t want to buy an outfit that would go to waste so to speak. I am sure sometime in the future an opportunity will present itself.
E. The fireman: I have had a couple of sexy encounters with men who work as firemen. They lived up to the image that is sometimes put out there about men who are strong and very attentive. Sadly for various reasons they didn’t stay in my life for very long. Maybe one day they will rescue me again.
Bonus: Tell us about your craziest or wildest role-playing adventure.
So my experience is limited. The craziest thing that comes to mind was an adventure I embarked on many years ago that involved me visiting a man in a hotel room. His wife had asked me to dress in lingerie with a coat over the top and give her man a lap dance while he was restrained. The restraint lasted as long as the dance and some very sexy fun ensued. The build up for me was intense as walking through a hotel wearing nothing but underwear was tittilating and a little nerve wracking. I quite enjoyed that young man and I believe he very much enjoyed me.
This post was made as part of TMI Tuesday. For more entries and other interesting TMI confessions make sure you read here.
I would also like to give a shout out to some fellow TMIers
The Pink Seam: An amazing mind with some great erotic fiction.
Mr A: A gentle soul, always a gentleman, always well dressed.