It has been a long week. I am not able to see the end of it yet.
1. Do you have a strong imagination? Why do you think this?
I am going to say yes. I am able to think up stories to write here so that is good evidence. When I am at work I try to keep a lid on my imagination but lets just say there are some meetings when letting my mind wander is the only way to stay sane.
2. Are you confident?
I am good at giving the impression I am confident. Sometimes my way of ploughing forward without taking time to consider the consequences bites me on the ass and sometimes I go confidently forth only to falter at a crucial point.
Most of the time people see me as confident and this prompts them to ask for help / advice but honestly I still see myself as the awkward socially isolated teenager from 1990.
3. Do you consider yourself to be sensual?
a. You bet I am!
b. Eek, no way.
c. In the right moments, I can be.
In line with my response to number 2 I am going to go with c. I am extremely sensual when I am in bed with sexy people. I love nothing more than exploring senses by giving and receiving massage, trailing my fingernails over someone’s skin, maybe using them harder if required, biting gently, harder if desired, and using my mouth on a beautiful cock.
When I am at work and in my every day life. Awkward, clumsy and, in my mind at least, quite the opposite.
4. When was the last time you dressed provocatively to entice flirting or attention?
It has been several months since I have been to any kind of swinging party / club. Which is where I usually dress this way. I have met with someone for one on one sex and usually when I meet I try to dress in a way that he will find enticing for the 30 seconds between when he walks in the door and we are naked.
Last time he commented about it. Which made me happy. Nothing makes a woman happier than a man who notices when she makes and effort and then comments.
5. How often do you think about sex?
Often. More than once a day. Since I have started working in earnest on this blog again I spend a lot of time thinking about situations and parts of stories. This sometimes leads to thinking about things I have done, or could do in the future. A lot of the time I am not conscious about it making me horny per se but I am guessing that somewhere in my subconscious there is something building up.
6. If someone called you ‘sexy,’ what would you do?
Say thank you and then feel awkward and not know what else to say.
If it was a work there would be an element of panic because I definitely try to keep sexy out of my mind when I am interacting with colleagues (most of the time) and students (100% of the time).
7. Are you comfortable with your body?
I think for the most part yes. I have worked hard over the last ten or so years to come to terms with my flaws but I still have moments of looking in the mirror and seeing the extra kilos and the issues that come with age developing.
Bonus: Are you good at getting what you want?
A mantra that I have used for many years is
“Things will always work out the way they are meant to”
I try not to focus too much on getting what I want out of a situation but rather working in a way that will improve me and ultimately result in something higher. It isn’t something that I achieve every day and I do occasionally get cranky when I don’t get my own way but on the whole I consider myself to be a very go with the flow kind of girl.
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