1. I’m so jealous, I wish I was _____ .
I am not jealous of anyone who is in a place like the one pictured. I do wish I was back there though, or so many other places.
2. When would you seek help from a sex therapist?
This question is one of the Thirty Dirty Questions series. You can read my full answer here. The summary answer; I am not really comfortable with the idea of visiting a therapist for any reason and so this scenario is unlikely. However if I was in a poly relationship and we were having jealousy issues this could be an option.
3. How do you break up with a friend?
I honestly don’t know. I have had a lot of friends come and go in my life. The main process seems to be ghosting. Because of my experiences being socially isolated and feeling awkward and not accepted as a teenager I am super sensitive to rejection. When I experience a situation that gives me the slightest feeling of rejection I automatically assume the worst and go to the default position of hating people.
4. Give us a tip to turn a bad day around.
A hug from a good friend works. Also driving over the speed limit with the music blaring.
Bonus: Do you feel drowned by social media?
An interesting question. I limit the platforms I interact with because of my job. I don’t want to run into my students online. So I am limited to the old fashioned platforms of Twitter and Facebook. Currently I am in Twitter jail because my profile image was deemed pornographic. So, frustrated by the companies that own and run social media? Yes. Drowned by it? No.